Selasa, 28 April 2009
Senin, 27 April 2009
masih
Setiap kali puisi tak tercipta
selalu ada tanya
masihkah cinta itu ada?
Padahal puisi tak selalu kata
puisi bisa menjelma menjadi laku
bahkan walau hanya sekedar tarikan nafas
Puisi adalah semesta luas
tidak tertutup oleh jaring-jaring kata
tidak terpenjara oleh terali-terali makna
puisi itu hidup di hati kita
dan nafasnya selalu menghembuskan cinta
selalu ada tanya
masihkah cinta itu ada?
Padahal puisi tak selalu kata
puisi bisa menjelma menjadi laku
bahkan walau hanya sekedar tarikan nafas
Puisi adalah semesta luas
tidak tertutup oleh jaring-jaring kata
tidak terpenjara oleh terali-terali makna
puisi itu hidup di hati kita
dan nafasnya selalu menghembuskan cinta
mean of love
Cinta adalah sebuah perasaan yang ingin membagi bersama atau sebuah perasaan afeksi terhadap seseorang. Pendapat lainnya, cinta adalah sebuah aksi/kegiatan aktif yang dilakukan manusia terhadap objek lain, berupa pengorbanan diri, empati, perhatian, memberikan kasih sayang, membantu, menuruti perkataan, mengikuti, patuh, dan mau melakukan apapun yang diinginkan objek tersebut.
Para pakar telah mendefinisikan dan memilah-milah istilah ini yang pengertiannya sangat rumit. Antara lain mereka membedakan:
- Cinta terhadap keluarga
- Cinta terhadap teman-teman, atau philia
- Cinta yang romantis atau juga disebut asmara
- Cinta yang hanya merupakan hawa nafsu atau cinta eros
- Cinta sesama atau juga disebut kasih sayang atau agape
- Cinta dirinya sendiri, yang disebut narsisisme
- Cinta akan sebuah konsep tertentu
- Cinta akan negaranya atau patriotisme
- Cinta akan bangsa atau nasionalisme
Beberapa bahasa, termasuk bahasa Indonesia atau bahasa Melayu apabila dibandingkan dengan beberapa bahasa mutakhir di Eropa, terlihat lebih banyak kosakatanya dalam mengungkapkan konsep ini. Termasuk juga bahasa Yunani kuna, yang membedakan antara tiga atau lebih konsep: eros, philia, dan agape.
Cinta adalah perasaan simpati yang melibatkan emosi yang mendalam Menurut Erich Fromm, ada empat syarat untuk mewujudkan cinta kasih, yaitu:
- Pengenalan
- Tanggung jawab
- Perhatian
- Saling menghormati
Seperti banyak jenis kekasih, ada banyak jenis cinta. Cinta berada di seluruh semua kebudayaan manusia. Oleh karena perbedaan kebudayaan ini, maka pendefinisian dari cinta pun sulit ditetapkan. Lihat hipotesis Sapir-Whorf.
Ekspresi cinta dapat termasuk cinta kepada 'jiwa' atau pikiran, cinta hukum dan organisasi, cinta badan, cinta alam, cinta makanan, cinta uang, cinta belajar, cinta kuasa, cinta keterkenalan, dll. Cinta lebih berarah ke konsep abstrak, lebih mudah dialami daripada dijelaskan.
Cinta kasih yang sudah ada perlu selalu dijaga agar dapat dipertahankan keindahannya
[sunting] Cinta antar pribadi
Cinta antar pribadi menunjuk kepada cinta antara manusia.
Beberapa unsur yang sering ada dalam cinta antar pribadi:
- Afeksi: menghargai orang lain
- Ikatan: memuaskan kebutuhan emosi dasar
- Altruisme: perhatian non-egois kepada orang lain
- Reciprocation: cinta yang saling menguntungkan
- Commitment: keinginan untuk mengabadikan cinta
- Keintiman emosional: berbagi emosi dan rasa
- Kinship: ikatan keluarga
- Passion: nafsu seksual
- Physical intimacy: berbagi kehidupan erat satu sama lain
- Self-interest: cinta yang mengharapkan imbalan pribadi
- Service: keinginan untuk membantu
Energi seksual dapat menjadi unsur paling penting dalam menentukan bentuk hubungan. Namun atraksi seksual sering menimbulkan sebuah ikatan baru, keinginan seksual dianggap tidak baik atau tidak sepantasnya dalam beberapa ikatan cinta. Dalam banyak agama dan sistem etik hal ini dianggap salah bila memiliki keinginan seksual kepada keluarga dekat, anak, atau diluar hubungan berkomitmen. Tetapi banyak cara untuk mengungkapkan rasa kasih sayang tanpa seks. Afeksi, keintiman emosi dan hobby yang sama sangat biasa dalam berteman dan saudara di seluruh manusia.
if we love someone
If we loved someone, we would always mendo’akan him although he was not beside us.
The lord gave us ber- two foot to go, two hands to hold, two ears to hear and two eyes to see. But why the Lord only bestowed a sliver of heart to us? Because the Lord gave a sliver again the heart to someone for us looked for him. So the Love …
Don't from time to time said goodbye if you were still wanting to try. Don't from time to time surrendered if you still felt could. Don't from time to time said you did not love him again, if you could not be still forgetting him.
The love came to the person who still was having hope, although they were disappointed. To them that still believed, although they were betrayed. To them that still want to loved, although they were hurt beforehand and to them who had courage and the conviction to build again the belief.
Don't keep love words to the dearest person so as he died because finally you were forced to note down the love words for pusara him. On the other hand said love words that were kept dibenak you that now while having his life.
Possibly the Lord wanted us to meet and be in love with the person who was wrong before meeting the exact person, we must understand how was grateful for this gift.
The love could change bitter became sweet, dust changed gold, turbid became clear, was sick to recovered, the prison became the lake, the suffering became lovely and anger became the blessing.
Really painful loved someone who did not love you, but rather painful was, loved someone and you had not had courage to state your love to him.
If you wanted to love or have the heart of a girl, compared as proofreading a red rose. Occasionally you kissed fragrant these roses, but occasionally you were felt could the roses thorn stabbed the finger.
The matter that was sad in the life was when you met someone who meant so much for you, only to find that in the long run to was not significant and you must allow him to go.
Occasionally you did not appreciate the person who loved you with all my heart, so as you lost him. At the time, not for regret because of the departure without saying again.
Love someone that on the basis of who he now and not who he beforehand. Narrated set might not be pried again into, apparently you really loved him with utmost sincerity.
Be careful with the love, because the love could also make the person healthy to was sick, the fat person became thin, the normal person became mad, the rich person became poor, the king became the slave, if his love was welcomed by the PHONY lovers.
The possibility what was loved by you or loved was kept by the weakness inside and kemungkinan what you hated was kept by goodness inside.
The love to the wealth meaning that miserly, the love to the woman meaning that nature, the love to himself meaning that wise, the love to died meaning that living and the love to the Lord meaning that Piety.
Throw a person who was happy in being in love into sea, definitely he will carry one ikan.Lemparkan also a person who failed in being in love into the bread warehouse, definitely he will die of starvation.
If you could speak in all the natural languages and nature, but not mempunyai the feeling of the love and the love, yourself not the difference like the echoing gong.
The love was the permanence … and the memory was the most beautiful matter that had been owned.
Who was good at to experience the love fully, but not a single was good at to consider the love because of the love not an object that could be seen by kasat the eyes, was the reverse the love could be only felt through the heart and the feeling.
The love in fact was to leave the person who was loved by you to himself and did not change him into the picture that was wanted by you alone. If not, you only loved the reflection himself who was found by you in himself.
You will never know when you will fall in love. However if until him that, gained in a second manner your hands and should not let he went with one million feelings of the question mark dihati him.
The love not cheap and normal words was said from the mouth kemulut but the love adalah the Lord's beautiful and holy gift if humankind could consider his holiness.
Was in love indeed was easy, to be loved also indeed was easy. But to be loved by the person who was loved by us so that had difficulty being received. If the presence of the love only a to disappoint, better the love had not been present.
The lord gave us ber- two foot to go, two hands to hold, two ears to hear and two eyes to see. But why the Lord only bestowed a sliver of heart to us? Because the Lord gave a sliver again the heart to someone for us looked for him. So the Love …
Don't from time to time said goodbye if you were still wanting to try. Don't from time to time surrendered if you still felt could. Don't from time to time said you did not love him again, if you could not be still forgetting him.
The love came to the person who still was having hope, although they were disappointed. To them that still believed, although they were betrayed. To them that still want to loved, although they were hurt beforehand and to them who had courage and the conviction to build again the belief.
Don't keep love words to the dearest person so as he died because finally you were forced to note down the love words for pusara him. On the other hand said love words that were kept dibenak you that now while having his life.
Possibly the Lord wanted us to meet and be in love with the person who was wrong before meeting the exact person, we must understand how was grateful for this gift.
The love could change bitter became sweet, dust changed gold, turbid became clear, was sick to recovered, the prison became the lake, the suffering became lovely and anger became the blessing.
Really painful loved someone who did not love you, but rather painful was, loved someone and you had not had courage to state your love to him.
If you wanted to love or have the heart of a girl, compared as proofreading a red rose. Occasionally you kissed fragrant these roses, but occasionally you were felt could the roses thorn stabbed the finger.
The matter that was sad in the life was when you met someone who meant so much for you, only to find that in the long run to was not significant and you must allow him to go.
Occasionally you did not appreciate the person who loved you with all my heart, so as you lost him. At the time, not for regret because of the departure without saying again.
Love someone that on the basis of who he now and not who he beforehand. Narrated set might not be pried again into, apparently you really loved him with utmost sincerity.
Be careful with the love, because the love could also make the person healthy to was sick, the fat person became thin, the normal person became mad, the rich person became poor, the king became the slave, if his love was welcomed by the PHONY lovers.
The possibility what was loved by you or loved was kept by the weakness inside and kemungkinan what you hated was kept by goodness inside.
The love to the wealth meaning that miserly, the love to the woman meaning that nature, the love to himself meaning that wise, the love to died meaning that living and the love to the Lord meaning that Piety.
Throw a person who was happy in being in love into sea, definitely he will carry one ikan.Lemparkan also a person who failed in being in love into the bread warehouse, definitely he will die of starvation.
If you could speak in all the natural languages and nature, but not mempunyai the feeling of the love and the love, yourself not the difference like the echoing gong.
The love was the permanence … and the memory was the most beautiful matter that had been owned.
Who was good at to experience the love fully, but not a single was good at to consider the love because of the love not an object that could be seen by kasat the eyes, was the reverse the love could be only felt through the heart and the feeling.
The love in fact was to leave the person who was loved by you to himself and did not change him into the picture that was wanted by you alone. If not, you only loved the reflection himself who was found by you in himself.
You will never know when you will fall in love. However if until him that, gained in a second manner your hands and should not let he went with one million feelings of the question mark dihati him.
The love not cheap and normal words was said from the mouth kemulut but the love adalah the Lord's beautiful and holy gift if humankind could consider his holiness.
Was in love indeed was easy, to be loved also indeed was easy. But to be loved by the person who was loved by us so that had difficulty being received. If the presence of the love only a to disappoint, better the love had not been present.
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